Just wanted to tell a friend this, because he seems stress over all the commotions for the pass few weeks in a so call competition that he has entered. I may not know exactly how he feels but the taste of failure is always bitter and nobody would like to taste under any circumstances. I may not know what level are the rest of the contestants that makes you loose your confidence in yourself. But one thing for sure I can tell you are that I have faith in.In any competitions there is bound to be a winner and of course the loser. But no worries, there is no loser in any competition, just that they’re not as good but not that they’re bad. If they’re bad, they would have not been selected in the first place. Everybody is unique, everybody has their own target audience. Some like Rhythm & Blues, some like Heavy Metal we can decided for people what they like. Or both have the style of singing but have different voice and the outcome is different. Always bear in mind that, we can’t please everybody. You’ve done your part and you know you put all your best that is all that matters. No regrets in the path you have taken, turning back won’t help just move forward. One door closes other doors open to more opportunities. Look at the brighter side.
You and I, both have read the book call ‘The Secret’, why let these little things bother you where you can do greater things. Believe you have been selected and feeling damn happy about it. That’s what you should be thinking and put your ‘Secrets’ to practice. It sounds easier to be said and done, but if you never try, you will never know. “Belum
Gambateh!!!!! I believe and have faith in you!!!
I came across this article back in February and I find it very interesting and sad as well. It’s called ‘Eating Dirt’ and it’s literally eating dirt. These people are so poor in But given a change I would actually try and see how it tastes like. In actual fact the taste will linger in your tongue for hours, base on what I’ve read but seems like it’s not a good review about it. So, would you actually go and try if given a chance to do so? When the economy plunges, people will find ways to survive even eating dirt. And I do not wish this is going to happen to our beautiful country.
As the nation move towards the future, we lose our identity, our culture and our traditions. And that will be written as history encrypted into our memories that will decay away as our body decays as well. What is happening to the old buildings that we use too lived in, that we use to have breakfast with out family? I still miss the old ways of living, but man has to move forward. The toys we use to play are no longer in productions, even the toys industries have moved forward as well. But what I miss the most is actually the building that we use to see and lived in, our culture and traditions are all been shield in these buildings. Remember running through the hall ways, falling down from the stairways, dining in the kitchen with family members, all these are now history. It does put a smile on my face as I dig up these memories that have been stored somewhere in my archive.
But how are we going to cohesive both that we won’t lose our identity and yet moving forward. Is it necessary to for go either one, in order to achieve the other? I’m pretty sure is not necessary and there is definitely a way, it is a matter of time.
Was actually passing by my house and I heard there were some commotion on the roof. As I look up, it’s actually pigeons. The pigeon was actually trying to push the young off the edge to learn how to fly. It’s just funny how they learned how to fly, by force. I wonder if the pigeon never push the young to learn how to fly will the young ever grew up not knowing how to fly? That answer we’ll leave it for the scientist to figure it out.I guess we human too at time need a little force in order for things to move. After awhile we stay in complacency and bound to the environment, we’ll get lazy. No motivation to move forward. So I guess at time we have been force to do thing that we might not like but end the end we might just learn something out of it. It’s just funny how the pigeon teaches the young to fly and do we human uses the same way to teach our children? I guess we do, if have some children who are very stubborn in characters. It’s for their own good just like the pigeon did for the young.
So if you’re those who don’t like to be pushed around, learn to fly before you’re being force to. Be more self-initiative, people around you will thinks you’re helpful and caring. If you don’t learn how to fly, you’re going to fall flat on your face.
One of the major characters for a Piscean would be dreaming. Piscean love do dream, which I don’t doubt it as I’m one of them. It’s always good to have dreams that would actually keep you on the ground in reaching your dreams. You wanted a dream wife that hotter than Angelina Jolie, a dream home you can come back to, a dream job that promises a future. Everybody dreams of getting it, but are we? Are we living our dream life? I’ve few friends already working in places like
Dream by day,
Dream by night,
Dreaming a way,
To kiss this place good bye.
When it comes to superwoman, there are only two people that cross my mind, Karyn White and Oprah Winfrey. Karyn White, it’s because of the song she sang back in 1988, up till today 20 years later, it’s still one of my favorite song. As for Oprah Winfrey she’s the queen of television host. I may not have watched everything single program by Oprah but each time I watched I learn.I’ve learned so much from her program just as much as I’ve learned from the National Geographic. After watching her program, it opens up a lot of windows for me to see the world as it is. Things you never knew it could be done, she did it. What I admired her most, was the fact that most of her program relates to a lot of negative stuff like death, sorrow, abuse, homeless and etc. It takes a woman with strong determination and will power to face all the situations she is in. If she’s not strong enough she would probably fall into depression, because of her job. I guess it take years of experience in order to face such situations. There are tears of sorrow and of course not forgetting the tears of joy. What always put back a smile on our face at the end of the show.
She has a big heart as well, as she has this ‘The Oprah Winfrey Foundations” that provide grants to not-for-profit organizations that offer education opportunities and enhance the quality of life for children and families throughout the world. We actually need more influential people to make a change to the way people think and live our lives. She definitely doing a great work here making things possible for the needy and making people’s life happy.
It’s about time we do something with our old habits. I’ve been trying to remind myself not to take any plastic bags whenever I go shopping and even paper bags as well. I actually saw my cousin started her changing her old habits of not taking any plastic or paper bags while shopping. And there is this Earthday (April 22); it started to make me want to change my habits to save our planet Earth. But over and over again I keep forgetting it, old habits dies hard. I’m sure after awhile of practice like my cousin I’ll change my habits as well.I think people are too ignorant about the planet earth conditions. People are busy with their own life, worrying what the future holds. What is there to worry if the planet earth depletes, you and I won’t be here anymore. Everything have to start some where, why not now! Change the way we live to save the planet earth we are living in. Plastic bags are non-biodegradable, it stays the same conditions even after 500 years in the soil. Paper bags are made from trees, the more trees the better to help us built back the ozone layer. The ozone layer it’s getting thinner by the day and the harmful rays are getting close to burning our delicate skin.
Change your habits to a brighter future, if not there won’t be a future for us. I’ve always wanted to get myself involve in some project to save out beautiful planet earth. And I’ve been introduce by a friend about this project by ‘juslife’ to Adopt a Project to save the planet earth. I encourage you to join to save our planet, save our future.
It’s been a long time such a good thing comes along since the 513 incident (May 13, 1969) which most Malaysian would know the history of it. I’m really glad that something has been done and I really love the fact that all the Malaysian artistes come together to do this zero budget project called ‘Malaysian Artistes for Unity’.
What is your understanding of “Soul Food”? Soul food was developed by enslaved Africans who lived under the difficult and impoverished conditions of grinding physical labor. But I’m definitely not talking about that kind of soul food but instead of the food we feed our inner soul that’s living in this capsule of flesh that forms our body.I think it is important what do we feed this hungry soul of ours? If we feed it with the wrong food, we’ll feel down or at times depress or rage. All these bad and negative emotions will be created if we feed it with the wrong soul food. Be wise not to let it get into you. Always keep in control what you put into your soul. A happy soul gives you longevity. If you grief in your soul, it will slowly eating you up from the inside out. And you’ll start to do silly things hurting yourself and worst of all people around you will get hurt too be it mentally or physically.
I never once thought of being a lecturer in my whole life. And now I’m one, people always think that I might be a bad influence to the students. I do curse a lot especially when I’m driving and some occasional curse when I’m not really in a good mood. Besides that, I guess everybody thinks that I’m bitchy too. I don’t deny the fact but overall I’m just ok, as long as you don’t step on my invisible tail. Everything will be just fine.I do believe in sharing knowledge with people, no point keeping them and bring it to the grave when you die. If there are people who are willing to learn, I’m definitely more than willing to teach and share my knowledge. You can actually see so many different types of students in the class and it really amazes me, besides shapes and sizes. Their mentality towards design are just like new born babies, constantly need to be pump with information into their systems. But yet there are so many different types of students, some of their processor are so slow and some are just meant for it. And some just need some guidance and their on their way.
At first I actually doubt myself whether I can make it as a lecturer or not? But ever since I’ve started, I kind of enjoy what I’m doing. And it just makes me happy when some students can really produce good work that you would never actually think off. And yet there some students still need quite a bit of polishing work to be done. But whatever it is, I think I’m obligated to teach and share my knowledge as lecturer responsibilities and I’m more than willing to do so. But it’s just at times I’ve to be someone else that is outside of my comfort zone.
I do wish all my students will come out to this harsh working world prepared. And I do believe some may not be back in the same field as what they studied. But whatever you’ve learn it is never put to waste.
Knowledge is power, Information is liberating. Education is the premise of progress, in every society, in every family. ~ Kofi Annan
Is “sugar and spice and everything nice” the ultimate recipe to a happy life? One thing for sure that is the recipe to create the Power Puff Girls. But what about our Happy Life, what’s the ultimate recipe? Everyone’s life is different and the ingredient to a happy life isn’t always sugar and spice and everything nice. How often do we wish our lives are like fairy tales, always happy ever after. That would only happens in the movies, cartoons and story books but does that exist in the harsh reality world we are living in?
I guess everything comes with a cost, I believe to achieve this happy life definitely comes with a price as well. What would be the right and perfect ingredient to achieve a happy life? But the ingredient to a happy life of mine may not be the right ingredient for others. As we are very special individual that separates us a part from the rest of the people, the uniqueness we have that others may not have. So I believe everybody do have their own recipe to a happy life. But then again I guess the basic ingredient might just be the recipe to make Power Puff Girls, sugar and spice and everything nice, the base ingredient to a happy life. Everybody has their dream life, how they want their live to be. I’ve mine and I believe you have got yours too. Everybody’s perfect happy life would be different. I hope you found your “Recipe to a Happy Life”, while I’m still perfecting my ingredient.
Happy searching for the ultimate perfect ingredient and never gives up! Cause we deserve every part of it.
In my line of work, this question keeps pop-up here and there while doing my work, be it in my design work as interior designer or as a lecturer in class. I think this topic is just too hard for me answer. Are there possibilities both to be combining in designs? It always clashes in design, we can either have the aesthetic but not the functionality or vice versa. A good design definitely combines both elements.A lot of times in my field, what we think its aesthetic in design but it may not be the same for the clients we face. Everybody has their own perception of aesthetic. So I guess it’s “One man’s food is another man’s poison” what more can I say? I can’t shove the design down the client’s throat, which is totally unethical. The clients are the people who are staying in the house and they should know better the way they live their lives and how things should be done. All we can do is only to take in as much information as possible to create an aesthetic livable home for a satisfied client.
To create something that have both elements of aesthetic with functionality needs a lot of research and time, a lot of R&D involved. It is not impossible but I guess it’s the time spent to create something that has all the elements would be costly. As you can see some designer’s piece is sky flying high price, it’s because the time spent on R&D. As a designer which one would you go for, aesthetic or functionality or a mixture of both? I guess one simple way to apply these elements would be, use the aesthetic element for show units and functionality for home user. The reason for doing so would be very simple, aesthetic for show units because it’s a show case place for developer to sell the home. As long as the aesthetic looks great and can sell, functionality is only secondary. Where as for home user, functionality would the priority and aesthetic would come in second place, but to some client it’s as important as aesthetic.
So being a designer it’s never an easy job and we have to constantly out do ourselves to move to the next level. Creativity has no boundaries and no limits.
I do believe everyone knows what is the major function a sponge can do? To absorb liquid as mush as possible till it’s totally full. So is a kids mind when they’re between the age from one to three, it’s a growing sponge that can absorb as many information possible. During this time, it’s the right time to teach them all the important things, from financial to bonding, respect, sharing and caring. There are so many values of life if I were to list them down.
At this tender age, absorbing information it’s as easy as ABC as long as you put them in a simple application for them to understand. As we grow older it’s harder for us to absorb that much as we lost the elastic to absorb so much information. And the way we live our lives has been fix, a habit has develop. I regretted a I’ve not learn all these things when I was still young and I’m learning the hard way as I’m living through my live. Through readings and friends, but when you have the heart to change, it’s never too late. Self educate yourself whenever you have time, besides the wondrous box (I mentioned in earlier blog) that brought me so much information to my life, the fantastic pile of papers with letters also brought me a lot of knowledge I needed. I never stop sharing all the information I know with my friends. I wish they never have to go through what I’ve gone through to get this information. It is never an easy process. Learning process is never ending unless we put a full stop to it. Every brand new day is a learning day for me. Learning from television, book, people around and the things we see
I actually came across an article last year stating that beautiful people do get what they want. Or get away with things easily. It’s actually a study done by some professor. But in real life do you actually think beautiful people do get an easier life than those who are not so beautiful? In the study, it did mention that beautiful people will get a job easier than those not so beautiful even though academically the not so beautiful people are higher than the beautiful ones. So where is the logic in it?But I do believe that beautiful people do get away with things and do get what they want easily. Then what happens to the not so beautiful people, I guess they’ll have to work double extra hard to into the society. But yet I do believe that everybody is beautiful in their own ways and I always hear this in Chinese “There is no ugly people, but only lazy people” I guess it’s quite true. When one work so hard to get so brainy, why don’t you spend a little more extra time to look good as well. Isn’t that better than some ‘bimbo’? Look pretty but brainless.
But I guess with the technology nowadays becoming beautiful it’s just a door step away. As long as you have wealth, looking good is never a problems. But how many people are willing to go under the knife to be beautiful? But I guess to your surprise, the figure might just unimaginable, I might, if it is affordable. But again, good stuff doesn’t come cheap. Of course there is another painless to do it and that is Photoshop way. As I say technology nowadays can do almost anything to our looks.
So is there any part of your face or body that you’re not satisfied of? Just consult a doctor and get the best opinion and pay for it, then you’re beautiful. Again are you willing to go under the knife to look beautiful people? One thing for sure once you’re beautiful, your confidence boost as well, no doubt about it.
Ladies beware these so call testicle-less man out there. I’m pretty sure the word testicleless doesn’t exist in any dictionary but you know what it meant right? To put it crudely means a man without balls. It’s every ladies dream to have a man of their dreams, but at times they just freak out and when missing when things just doesn’t goes right.I’m trying to relate it to a classic case that happen few months back to a friend of mine. She was madly in love with this man, where ever she goes and whatever she does it’s only for him. I guess love is blind, till today I still don’t know what strike her with that man. As the relationship grows, so is the silence. To my belief, in a relationship both need to have understanding, communications and most importantly compromising. My poor friend just mentions one wrong statement and there she goes, slowly slipping into the silence treatment process and soon enough she is out of his life. And the best part was that up until now the guy didn’t even say the word “our relationship is over and done with”. Is it that hard to say that word to reassure that the relationship it’s over. This kind of man I would label them as “testicleless” aka “no balls”. Even the relationship it’s over my friend has moved on. But in between the silence treatment, I can see how suffering she went through. Crying almost every night to sleep and wonder what happen in between and how to mend the relationship.
As a man I think responsibility is very important. How can someone look up to you when you’re so irresponsible? For whatever reason you want to end the relationship just say it. Whether you have found someone else, this is the comment case in any scenario. Or not meant for each other or give each other some time. Just say it out “we’re over”, “finito” simple as ABC, but yet there are these testicleless people exist. I rather this people be extinct then the Dodo bird.
So, guys please be a MAN and be responsible with all the things you do. Do it with no regrets. Silence don’t solve problems, silence creates misunderstanding. Be wise and I’m sure you’ve live long enough to discern what is right and wrong, what actions to be done. Don’t be the testicle-less man we all hate.
I’m really grateful to the person who invented this wondrous box of unlimited information and entertainment. To invent this wondrous box takes a great amount of time. The origins of what would become today's television system can be traced back to the discovery of the photoconductivity of the element selenium by Willoughby Smith in 1873, the invention of a scanning disk by Paul Gottlieb Nipkow in 1884, and Philo Farnsworth's Image dissector in 1927. On March 25, 1925, Scottish inventor John Logie Baird gave a demonstration of televised silhouette images in motion at Selfridge's Department Store in LondonBut of course in the 20th century, this wondrous box have evolve to all shape and sizes, and yet it’s still doing the same wondrous job in giving unlimited information and entertainment to us. And I’m sure up till now you should know what this wondrous box is? That is ‘Television’ that we are watching in our daily lives.
At times I do think being a couch potato was not that bad after all. Stick to your chair day and night absorbing all the information that TV emit. I was once there but not that extreme. I do learn a lot from TV, most of my general knowledge comes those educational channels like National Geographic, Discovery, Discovery & Living and etc. I guess the TV is a good source of information besides the book or newspaper we read everyday. Of course besides these educational channels come the movies, TV series and dramas channels which entertain us from time to time. Even from these channels I get to learned from it. I guess it’s really up to individual how you see things how you want to absorb these information.
Besides learning from all these channels it actually keeps you updated with the world news. What’s going on around the world we live in? I guess it’s important that we should know what is happening in the world today as we’re not living alone in this beautiful planet. With this news that has been broadcast, I believe it brings the human race closer and the world seems smaller that we thought it should be. We as human beings have a conscious mind, where ever there is disaster we’ll keep these people in prayers or try to find ways to help the victims in anyway we can.
So I do believe this great invention that has created for us, to make us feel closer and the world is not that big as we think it would be.
This is one of the interesting topics I would like to talk about. And I’m pretty sure most of you know what the ‘Seven Deadly Sins’ are?
Ever since the 512 incident in China, I’ve learnt a lot from all these people and find that what has almost extinct resurface. There are so many stories that touch my heart which I’m going to share with you.Story 1
When the earthquake started this young girl without hesitation just leap off from her classroom that is 3 meters above ground level to safety. With her quick thinking she is save but not for her classmates who is unfortunately buried in the rumble. The ugly site of the rumble makes her fell sad but made her stronger to live her life and not to disappoint those who has buried beneath the rumble.
Story 2
This next story is about this courageous teacher and a young boy who went in and out of the rumbling building to save as many students as possible. The teacher when in for the last time to look for his own children but unfortunately got buried in, when the building finally caved in. The young boy lived to tell the story of his courageous teacher.
Story 3
Youngest survival about 3 months old, found in the rumble together in the arms of his mother who’s in the protective possible while he’s still sucking from his mother’s nipple. But unfortunately the mother didn’t survived. This proves how great and selfless the mother was to actually let the baby live by giving her milk in a situation like that knowing she might not survive it.
Story 4
This little girl who is in the darkness of the rumble never stops singing even though she’s in fear. Singing keeps her company and thanks to her singing the worker found her in the rumble and rescues her.
Story 5
This policewoman who just gave birth to a baby and still breast feeding her own baby has been a mother to many other infants as well. Since she’s still breast feeding, the milk never stop producing and she takes this opportunity to feed other babies who bas lost their mothers.
Story 6
A handsome young man when berserk looking for his girlfriend after the earthquake strike. When he finally located his girlfriend, he stayed by her side for four days and four nights while waiting for the rescue team to get her out of the rumble. This is to show how great is this handsome young man loves for his girlfriend.
Story 7
The headmaster of this school never fails to make the whole school to practice the emergency routine once a week. To some of the students it’s a waste of time, to some students it is totally funny. On the day when the earthquake happens, so happen the headmaster was out for an appointment. When he heard the news about the earthquake, he quickly rushed back to the school and to his surprise. He lost none of his fellow teachers and students, thanks to his persistent of the practice. All are saved.
I think I tell enough stories here. Each of these stories really brought tears to my eyes. These are some of the stories I know and I’m sure there are more touching stories which are untold. With this 512 incident I find that people from China are getting closer then ever before, strangers become friends. I guess it’s not just in China people are getting closer but all around the world as well. As I saw there are doctors from other countries flew there once they heard the news of the earthquake. At time I just wish that everyone can be closer like friends and families naturally and not when trouble comes only we are friends and families. I guess something has to start somewhere and let make this a memorable day that the world has united.
I wish China will be stronger from this 512 incident and not let this affect you to press forward to build a brighter future.
This is one of the most interesting slogans I came across so far. I’m pretty sure you must be thinking “What kind of a slogan is this?” It’s a child abuse campaign slogan. It’s actually very direct and effective way to tell the world from a child’s innocence point of view.Think of the animal kingdom. Lioness and the cubs, lioness work together to protect of each others cubs. Elephant always protect their young ones from being attack by others. Even crocodiles take care of their young ones, by carrying them into the river with their mouth. No matter how savage the animals could be yet they still take cares of their young ones. This is actually basic instinct of every animal species, to take care of their young ones. But what happen to the human species? The most intellectual of them all! What happen to their basic instinct to take care and protect their young ones? Whenever I see news regarding child being abuse, it just makes me wonder what has the world comes to? It just makes me feel that we, human beings are more savage than the animals we see on national geographic. I don’t see tigers eating their own cubs. I don’t see chimpanzees hitting their babies till they bleed, which is closest to our human species.
How could someone actually put a cigarette butt to a child’s skin? How could someone hit a child till their brain damage? How could someone kick a child till they bleed internally? No matter how annoying a child could be, they don’t deserve it. If you think this is annoying? Why would you want a child in the first place? How a child grows it actually how the parents teach them? If you teach your child the right way, how annoying could a child be unless you, yourself brought the child up in the wrong manner. I strongly believe, no matter how bad a child acts, they don’t deserve to be torture to the stage where it almost cost their lives.
Please be more human
Than the animals from the savage land.
Before your child thinks
That the animals are the better clan.
At time I wish life is as simple as a bowl of salad you see every time. But as you know salad, has a lot of different type? Fruit salad, pasta salad, garden salad and etc all has their own characteristic. I guess in order to make a good bowl of salad it’s never an easy job. Everything needs to compliments each other. If not, I guess it’s going to be something out of the world. To make a good salad I guess the dressing it’s very important to compliments the whole lot more other ingredients as well. It’s just like our life, some dressing to spice up our life and some whole lot more friends and a little foe to compliments it, to have the perfect balance of life.Whenever I’m making a bowl of salad it does brings back a lot of memories, some sweet, some not so sweet as well. But in each process of making the salad, I’m enjoying it. Keep on thinking how to improve it or what else to add in order to look good and taste great as well. I guess that goes the same for my life as well. Never stop thinking of how to improve it and spice it up with some laughter, everything sweet and nice, just like the recipe to make power puff girls. But of course without the super powers that they have.
Since we’re the one who’s picking the right ingredient to make the best salad we could. That should be the same for our lives as well, choose the right way to live our life, choose the right company, and choose the right path. The choice is in our hands, nobody can make the decision for you on how you should live your life but only opinions to help to ease the troubled mind.
All the best in making the best bowl of salad you could!
Ever since the reality shows has been so popular, there is this question just pops-up. Do these contestants have the slightest ideal of what the competition is all about? I see that most of these people would actually make the fool out of themselves, in exchange for a few seconds of fame. Is that worth it? But I do praise these people who actually have the guts to make a fool of themselves realizing they don’t actually have the talent for it. I really rest my case for those who can’t accept the reality that they can’t sing and think they sing like angels. That not all, the worst is those people around them! These people actually praise and encourage them to join knowing it’s going to fail miserably. This is where the question comes. Do you actually do the same if knowing he/she can’t make it big in the industries? Would you actually tell the truth to your friend and hurt his/her feeling just to save him/her from the embarrassment and not waste time dwelling in the hopes of becoming a star, singer or model, whatever you can think of. To be honest, I would! Because I love my friend and telling him/her the truth may just hurt his/her feeling for maybe days or weeks or most months. But having false hope not realizing the truth is even worst, don’t you think? And you’re practically lying to your friend who you think you cared about? You can call me mean or bitchy, whatever it is; I cared too much to let my friend to go through such hardship of the world. I maybe giving you harsh comments but when it comes to the world it’s even worst.
Just recently I came across a magazine. It’s more like for the hopeful to become a model. But so far I came across only a handful that can make it as a model but frankly speaking not a big one though. I’ve been doing my own investigations and speculations. It seems like any Tom, Dick & Harry can appear in the magazine just as long as you pay for it. And people around the industry have been giving such harsh comments about these people who appeared in the magazine. I refer these “people” because I don’t consider them as “models”. I guess first impression is very important, but the magazine does have an impact on us but not in a good way. People all around has been questioning with the qualities of the so called models appearing in the magazine. What really happened? Best of all the latest issues having the female models pose like playboy playmates. Are these so call models who want to make it big will be able to make it big with those poses? I wonder whether these people have actually seen fashion magazines like Harper Bazaar, Vanity Fair, Vogue and etc. These major magazines can give them a good idea on how to pose. But I wonder how come they are posing like playboy playmates. But you’re trying to make it big in the industry with that kind of pose. I would say, you never go far. High fashion poses looks artistic not pornographic; look sensual but not sleazy; with character not ???
What is the exact definition for models? What’s the difference between a models and event girls? I’m sure a lot of people would think event girls and models are the same. But seriously there are big differences between the both of them. It is very obvious the qualities and characters they portrays. Models promote fashion, event girls promote sex. That is just a public opinion. So I’m sure this is the very distinct difference between a model and event girls. Never put models the same level as event girls. I may not be from the modeling industry but there are a lot of people who is in and out of the industry giving such comments as well. I just wonder what happen to the qualities of becoming a model. And if becoming a model is that simple, I guess there wouldn’t be any more models around as we are all models too.
And again, I just wonder the friends and family of those people who appeared in the magazine, would actually support them yet knowing it’s not going to work out. Aren’t YOU telling a big lie to your beloved friend? Would you actually be the bad guy to tell him/her the truth? Or just let them be a Piscean, to dream day and night of becoming a model, and yet it will never come true.
Dreaming day and night,
That’s what I do most of the time.
Waking from the dream I might,
What actually comes to your mind? A snake? Just because the snake flaunt its purple tongue out most of the time doesn’t mean it’s poisonous? And I’m pretty sure you know your science well enough that the tongue of the snake tastes the air and don’t gives out poison. Just a little science lesson to fresh up your memories. And I’m sure you must be wondering which wild animals with poison tongue? I guess it’s not any wild animal you’re thinking about. It’s the very concrete jungle that we lived in have such poison tongue.So how poisonous can the tongue be? Have you ever ponder and wonder about it? To a lot of people a tongue it’s just a tongue, how could it be poisonous? I guess the poisons that the tongue utters out are so poisonous that it pierces through our very soul deep inside. And yet it’s colorless and tasteless. Worst then any poison that you can think of. Is there a cure for this poison?
With this tongue it destroys a lot of things you can’t imagine, friendships, relationships & the worst, lives! By speaking so, it’s obvious that I’m one of the victims of this poison tongue. And I’m pretty sure who’s not and it’s a matter of how severe it is. It’s just surprise me that how one could have such poisonous tongue and would actually use it to friends and family? Where is the human conscious mind? By doing so does it benefits anyone? Who knows, probably the one who releases the poison in order to get what he or she wants. You be surprise the male species might have the most poisonous tongue compared to the female species who likes to gossip so much. How does this poison tongue works? As a victim and after much evaluation and thoughts here is what I’ve come out with.
The Recipe for Poison Tongue.
First, gathering of information. To what extend, I’ve no idea. And how much truth is in the information? I’ve no idea either. Next, inject his or her own theories into it and mix it well till smooth. Then start putting the poison to…, not the victim in this case but the friends. As the poison flows slowly to the victim and killing it slowly but surely and not knowing who injected the poison. Wala… the recipe for a poison tongue!
Of course there are friends who are immune to the poison and try to stop the poison from flowing to the victims. But I guess it’s just hard for someone who has a big mouth. Why? It’s just hard to keep something so significant in that big mouth. It just moves and moves and moves. Comment sense. So I would actually like to advice friends not to say so much to people who has big mouth, before they start spreading. I guess at times it’s quite true that “The Tremeloes” sang the song “Silent is Golden”. There are times I just wish those people with big mouth should just zipped up. But I guess it’s just like the animal in the wild, it’s their basic instinct to just blab and not think of the consequences that they cause to others. I guess people with poison tongue just couldn’t care less the outcome. But I’m sure everyone does have this poison tongue but why can’t they control their poison tongue? I guess it’s in their nature and we can’t change the fact. Again, I guess without these people our lives would be so bored and only these kind of people bring spices to our lives but I guess these are one of the bad spices in life.
Have anyone seen this art of changing face in China? It’s really amazing how the person changes the mask in just a few seconds. And each mask shows different emotions and practically all kind emotions you can think of. And it seems like this art of changing face it’s dying. But to what I think the art maybe dying but it seems like we as living being are really good in this art of changing face without noticing that we’re born with such talent.
I'm writing this is to tell my friends that once we're good friends we're friends forever. There are season to everything. For now we're very close and as time pass we may grow apart but it doesn't mean we're not friends. You've already leave a mark in my heart which it can never be taken away or replaced, that's an assurance I can give you. Some people takes friendship lightly some don't. And some who found their life's partner and lost their close friend. I've experience all these and I've no complain. It's a fact of life and humans are not perfect. I maybe angry at first, but as time flies, it washes away all the sorrows and sadness bit by bit, slowly but surely.This long walk of life I've encounter so many hardship but yet with every hardship there is always a hidden treasure somewhere. Be it big or small, it doesn't matter as I find every treasures has it's values. I guess the name says it all "treasure" I'm sure it's priceless. All these treasures I come along are all the good people I meet, be it young or old, tall or short. And some have grown very close friends of mine which i treasure and cherish them. And I'm afraid that I might lose them one day, but I guess it's totally out of my control and I'll just have to accept the fate. And of course wish them all the best. I do cherish each one of you dearly and close to my heart. All that I do is for all the close friends that I care and love and tell myself that whatever I do for them, there's no regrets. I've learn to take things more optimistic lately.
Be it happy or sad, life goes on and the sun rises from the east everyday without fail, so why should we dwell into something that is unhealthy. Look at the brighter side of everything and live our life to the fullest and be content and have no regrets and everything we do I guess that is the best we can enjoy our lives. It's always easier said then do but never stop trying cause I don't give up on you and you also don't give up on yourself. I'm always here to lend a helping hand and give you a shoulder to cry on whenever you need me. I may not be a good adviser but I'm always a good listener. At times you see that I'm crazy and I guess everyone has a soft spot inside. Never think you're alone as I'm always there for you, whether we're worlds apart, friendship has no barrier over distance, age or sex. Always bear in mind once a buddy we're always buddy. Never let your fear eats you up inside, if you feel like sharing makes you happier then share. If you're not comfortable share with me it's alright. Share it with someone you think you trust and you feel comfortable if it makes you happier. As long as you're happy, I'll be happy for you as a friend. If you need someone to cry with you, I'll cry with you if it helps you feel better. I've once seen a t-shirt written "It takes a greater man to cry then to hold back his tears" I do believe in that. Always remember, no matter what I'm always here with you. Even though I maybe far away. With just a simple email, SMS or 3G. I'm there. Smile, smile, for you have friends who cares for you.
This question pops up too many times in my lifetime and I'm sure it's going to pop up again later in my life. How do you value your friends and how your friends value you? There are times when you just treat certain friends so good, hoping something or at least some responds but no. I know that people always says, went to do something don't expact something in return. The truth is, I'm not that type of person I still expact something in return. Be it just a "hi" do or a sincere thank you. Then at least I know I'm being acknowledge. How far are you willing to go for a friend which you treasure but knowing that your friend doesn't put the same treasure value on you??? I guess in life there are questions that have no answer to it and left unanswered.
Mystery? Secrets? Who knows? Everyone have their secrets, everyone have something no one knows about. Dark secret? Only you and God knows what are those. It all depends on how you would like to reveal them to your friends. Everyone wear mask at sometimes of their lives to disguite some truth which they wouldn't want to reveal. But how good are you in hiding all the truth that no one knows....And how good other see through our disguise? No one knows how vulnerable we are to other? Some people are really good some people are just not for it.
Just the topic alone I think it's hard to explain and express! People talk about their griefness and sadness but how come people tense to forget about the happy moments they have? Happy moment seems to be gone with a blink of an eye, and sadness seems like a lifetime. It's just funny how one can advice people to be happy and not grief, yet ourselves can't release ourselves from such situation when we're struck with it?Time and again, some article about happy people do really live a longer life then those who grief. I guess in this world everything is balance. Life’s given, life’s taken. But what's the ratio over it? Nobody knows, only God knows!!!! So I guess one should learn to love ourselves more and be happy and content with what they have. I do have friends who complain about their life, job and many other things. Which they don't see, how can the whole world be wrong and you alone are right? Does is make sense? No, is the answer. It's really up to you, and I guess it's time to question yourself, where the problem lies? Learn to be positive about life!!! Yeah! Who doesn’t know that, talk is cheap!!! In fact it's free...so what are we doing to make it happen? But if everyone is happy without sadness there won't be happiness as well. Because there is nothing to compare with. In this world everything is needs to be compared, if not you would know what's good and what's bad, yin & yang but whether it's balance or not, and again nobody knows, only God knows.
I guess after this I myself should be more positive about life which I don't think I can do it. Not that I grief about my life but neither I'm happy about it too. So where do I stand? Tough question. There is always season to everything in life. It's just a matter of how fast the season change and go. People come and go out of our lives, whether these people leave some good memories or bad nobody knows? Just a moment ago, I hear friends laughing and I'm here crying all alone, is that what's all the balance it's about? There are just too many things that run through my mind and it's so hard for me to grab on to one single thing that I wish to solve. It seems impossible, just as slipped away into the distance darkness to be resurfaced again with all the other problems when we're vulnerable.
I guess everybody has a bad day or a bad week it's just how bad it gets only. For my case it begins on Monday and lasted all the way to Saturday. And I'm really thankful it's all over, hopefully :)
To some people this is a special day but not for me. To me it's just another ordinary day which too many things has happen in the past and fall so hard on my faca and got back up and live my ordinary life. Through out this process I've lost some and gain some. I've gain a lot of experience and how to live my life to the fullest and do not act foolishly and I've lost a dear friend who's close to my heart. That's the greatest regret up to date. I wish that things were better and I wish I could turn back time, but that's impossible I guess there's nobody in this world could do such a thing and only God knows. Now I'm happy yet still sad over losing this close friend of mine, yet I need to be strong and tell my friend that no matter how, I'm still going to stand strong and not be bother over this matter. I guess there are just too many misunderstood between the both of us and there are still a lot of loose end. I wish that one day all the loose end meets and problems solve. By the looks of it, I guess it's impossible as I'm trying very hard to get in contact but it seems impossible. I'm still praying these day would come and the bright sunlight at this end of the long dark tunnel would been seen.
I guess through this experience I've changed a lot, if not I would still be bitter about the experience and doing silly things. But yet I'm not, I just live my life as it is and slowly picking up pieces that I've lost along the way. It's a long and hard process and I'm totally not complaining about it as I just don't want to lose this friend over matters that are not solve. I totally find it not fair to me and I've been left in the dark not knowing what I did wrong to deserve it. Yet I'm looking at the brighter side to be patiently waiting that one fine day the answers would come, though it's impossible, I'm not giving up that easily. I do hope that next time when I look back and I've no regret about it and problems solve.
It's another day and yet my work is still not done. The best part was I actually felt asleep until this morning. Friends laugh at me for still staying in this company knowing that I'm those who can't stay long in a company especially those who don't treat their staff well. My friend thought that they might have poison me or cast a spell on me cause I've been working late and work during weekends and yet have not heard any complains about it. Deep in my mind I've wanted to leave this place when I found out that I need to work on Saturday and yet almost full day. But then after staying I knew all these new colleague who eventually become friends and the thought of leaving just disappear. Somehow the thought resurface again just few weeks back and since yesterday incident the more so I wanted to leave. After talking to most of my friends. I guess in this line of work that I'm it we're always in the losing end and the employer always win. I'm just sad that I've not taken up something that's money making instead of my interest. Nowadays I keep advice my young friends, doing something you like wouldn't get you anyway but do something that makes money will get you somewhere you want in the future. Make your choice right!!! The choice is always in our hand. I think I better go and prepare myself for work another day has begun and another rushing day that I've to go thru.
I guess many of you would think the same as well. There are times when things shouldn't have done or said. That's the situation I'm in now! I really wish that I've not said so much and things wouldn't have gone to this stage, where I'm now. Feeling all kind of guilts. Thinking whether have I done the right thing. I've already know the out come and yet I said it out. Am I stupid or what?!?!?! Sometimes I just wonder how stupid am I? Knowing what I've said would causes this chain reaction and yet I said it. And now I really don't know how am I going to let myself go of this situation I'm in. I totally don't know where I stand? Whether I've done the right thing or not? Before doing it I've already thought to myself if it doesn't work, how am I going to face the rejection. Where I know most likely what the answer would be. And yet I let myself get burned. How stupid can I be? Playing with fire knowing the danger of it.
