Wednesday, September 3, 2008 | Filed in:
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I’ve been watching this Taiwan TV program about singing competition called Million Stars and there are a few judges just like the American Idol reality show. What I like about this program it because of the judges. Unlike the usual singing competitions the judges would just give comments and it never seems to build the contestants confidence.
While watching this program I have learned a few things that can actually apply to our daily lives and just singing. Most important is to give constructive comments, everybody can give comments but give it in a way that build oneself and help to improve one. In the bible there is a verse:-
Ephesians 4:29
Let not unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
I think it is applicable whether you’re a Christian or not. It is a lesson that everyone should keep in mind. But sorry to say I’m those people if I think you are worth my praise, I would go all the way and I wouldn’t lie to myself if I don’t like you. If it really hard not to show it because I’m really not good in hiding my emotions when I don’t like someone.
I’ll definitely try my best not to discourage people especially now that I’m a part-time lecturer, every single words that comes out of my mouth is take into account of the listener, my students. I need to constantly reminding myself that I do play a role in their lives as a lecturer. Making sure they know it is a jungle out there and it is not a piece of heaven that falls from the sky. But sometimes reverse psychology only works on certain people. It is just how amaze our every individual works.
Let not unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
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